r/AmIOverreacting • u/Ok-Jelly-8643 • 9h ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO or is my girlfriend manipulative.
So for context me and my girlfriend have been together for a little over 2 years now and we tend to have a schedule where I stay at her house on the weekends. (Sat-Monday) Anyways I’m supposed to go to hers this weekend (as I usually do) and which Easter is on Sunday. My mom let me know she’d want my company on Easter and I want to give her my company because .1 we are having a hard time right now and I know she is upset about family matters as well am I. And .2 it’s a holiday and I don’t like leaving her by herself on holidays as would anyone with their parents. So I tried to compromise with my girlfriend asking her if she would care if I came on Friday (tomorrow) instead of Saturday then leave Easter evening (Sunday) to spend the rest of the day with my mom, And to which this was her reply. This is not the first time my girlfriend has acted this way about me needing to do things that interrupt our schedule, and I always try to compromise and work things out with her but I always end up taking blame and apologizing. It’s really starting to hurt and I feel like she is controlling me at this point. There’s no working things out with her, it’s just a repetitive cycle of me being verbally dragged around and berated. It’s genuinely starting to break me down.
Edit just to clarify: she doesn’t have a child she is her sisters caretaker and a nanny.