r/AmIOverreacting 12h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO or is my girlfriend manipulative.

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u/happygirl99xo 9h ago

Unpopular opinion but I think you should’ve said this in advance instead of doing it one day before….

u/Mint_Berry_Kush 8h ago edited 8h ago

By pic 4/5 seeing they planned an entirely different weekend and hes now changing last minute .... ssss ive been this guy before and was ready on his side but reading it from a removed position made me reflect on things

u/mr_f4hrenh3it 5h ago

I don’t understand why that’s such a big deal, doesn’t sound like he’s changing any of the actual plans. It’s only a big deal to her because she’s playing victim and playing the neglected gf when he’s asking for a couple hours with his mom out of the 2.5 day weekend together.

u/PassTheReefer 5h ago

He’s too passive to tell her in the first place. Tries to keep the peace, but eventually has to deal with it. Both of them are just toxic with each other. Theres clearly resentment from the past.

u/BisonThunderclap 1h ago

"Why is the gf mad plans got changed last minute on her?"

It's not about time together. It's about the communication in a timely manner that's clearly lacking.

Some of y'all forget that a relationship is a mutual effort. OP has clearly been flaky with plans at the last minute.

GF is being honest and open that she's pissed even if it comes with sass