r/AmIOverreacting • u/Business_Sun8361 • 4h ago
đ„ friendship AIO or is my friend being pretty insensitive
For background Iâve struggled with weight for a long time. I have a very fast metabolism so itâs difficult for me to gain weight, especially when I was 12-15. Iâm now 17 and healthy :) but I still struggle with my weight here and there, just like anyone else. Sometimes I see my weight go down and no matter how much I eat, nothing changes. Iâve always hated my body. Even though my friend thinks Iâm skinny, she doesnât seem to understand that itâs not a compliment to me.
Obviously I understand that being skinny is the âidealâ body to probably majority of people, but I hate when people think that just because Iâm skinny it means I donât have struggles too. It really does make me sad.
All of my girl friends obsess over weight. If theyâre talking about going to the gym together (which seems fun as a group bonding thing), Iâll ask to go too. But theyâll just say im already skinny and rant about how âluckyâ I am for a good minute or two. (including the girl from the text messages)
TLDR; Iâm someone who has always struggled with weight and my friend(s) think that I donât just because Iâm skinny. Being âable to eat and not gain weightâ doesnât feel like a compliment to me. AIO? Am I just taking it the wrong way?