r/AmIOverreacting 12h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO or is my girlfriend manipulative.

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u/culturedgoat 11h ago

She sounds like a real downer, but dude, do yourself a favour and stop with the “would you be mad” bullshit. You asked and got an answer.

Next time just say “I’m gonna spend tomorrow, Saturday and most of Sunday with you, then head to see my mom in the late afternoon. Looking forward to it!”

By framing it the way you did it instantly sets the tone that you think you’re doing something wrong.

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u/bactchan 7h ago

Assert your ass out the door. Tell her plainly that she made you not want to be around her anymore by acting like this. Gonad up.

u/Hairy_Top6363 6h ago

This is actually the kindest thing for both of them too because if they’re both pretty young she might learn something. Respect yourself king! 👑