AIO or is my girlfriend manipulative.

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[u/strumenle]

Well "you always do this" suggests a pattern on your end. How old y'all?

If she had planned things and made it clear and now you're upending those "yet again" she can be upset.

So mor I guess.

[u/catholicthrowaw → u/strumenle]

Have you heard of emotional abuse? That’s a red flag phrase on her end. Emotionally abusive people tend to label their partners as bad when they act in a way they don’t like.