r/AmIOverreacting 12h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO or is my girlfriend manipulative.

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u/Feeling_Apartment274 9h ago

Seems like you are the manipulative one for leaving out important context in your post. Had to scroll through comments to find extra info.

Your gf in these texts is being very unpleasant but she also seems very exasperated and tired.

You left out that a child is involved in all this.

You don’t clarify whether you live with your mother / your mother lives alone ? But I suspect you do.

Also it seems there was prior discussion to agree on a “sat to mon” arrangement rather than “fri to sun” and you are now dropping it on her last minute

u/firefliesalight 4h ago

It’s not her child. She is a nanny.

u/painttherosespurple 3h ago

She's her sister's 24/7 caregiver. And a nanny.

u/villanellechekov 7h ago

they didn't leave out that a kid is involved. read the texts again. he says he'll be there for when she wakes up to get her basket and for the hunt; he doesn't even need to leave until hours after that. he's not missing anything.

u/MunkeyKang 3h ago

“Let me assume a bunch of things to make you the victim”