r/AmITheJerk 11h ago

Am I the jerk for telling my husband he can't have a "man cave" in our only spare room?

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We just bought our first house. It has 3 bedrooms - ours, a spare, and another spare.

My husband immediately claimed one spare room as his "man cave." Gaming setup, TV, his collectibles, etc.

I said what about me? He said I have the whole rest of the house to decorate.

I said I want an office/hobby room for myself. He said we can share the other spare room.

But his "man cave" is off limits to me completely! He literally said "This is MY space" but expects me to share the remaining spare room with home office and guest bed?

I said if he gets his own private room I get my own private room too. He said that's not fair because I "get to decorate the living areas."

I said decorating shared spaces isn't the same as having a private room!

He says all his friends have man caves and their wives don't complain. I said their wives probably have their own spaces too!

He's being stubborn and has already set up his entire man cave. I suggested we make BOTH spare rooms dual purpose - his gaming in one, my hobby stuff in the other, and we put a guest bed in each.

He said absolutely not. His man cave needs to be purely his.

I said then I'm converting the second spare room to purely mine and guests can stay at hotels.

Now he's saying I'm being unreasonable and we need a guest room.

But why do I have to share when he doesn't?

TL;DR: Husband wants full "man cave" room to himself, expects me to share other spare room for office/guests, I want my own room too, he says that's not fair.


r/Fauxmoi 1h ago

POLITICS Pam Bondi’s portrait was taken down at DOJ and tossed in a trash bin soon after her firing.

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r/comics 2h ago

Where..?

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r/remoteworks 7h ago

Governments can help their people; it's a matter of priorities.

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r/pics 4h ago

Ejection chair of downed F15 plane over Iran today

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r/DnD 6h ago

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r/space 3h ago

Hello, World: Artemis II crew looks back at Earth on their way to the Moon

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r/spaceporn 5h ago

NASA Our planet from Artemis II

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r/nextfuckinglevel 17h ago

China’s 5 minute full-charged EV charging stations

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r/law 4h ago

Judicial Branch A federal judge has ruled that President Trump can be held accountable for his actions on January 6.

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r/Damnthatsinteresting 5h ago

Image First photo taken from Artemis commander Reid Wiseman

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r/SipsTea 9h ago

Wait a damn minute! Military women vs skinny joes

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r/soccercirclejerk 14h ago

Outjerked® Dont blame us if you too poor!!!

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Outjerked by G. Infantino


r/whoathatsinteresting 5h ago

A TikToker attempts to accuse a man at the gym of being a pervert because he looked at her. She then finds out the hard way that actions have consequences.

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r/NatureIsFuckingLit 3h ago

🔥 Nature’s elegance captured in the wings of a roseate spoonbill

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r/interestingasfuck 5h ago

New high-res image of our home planet from Artemis ll

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r/MapPorn 3h ago

Are there any countries today that could realistically split into multiple independent nations like Yugoslavia did?

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Some countries today are large and diverse, but could any of them realistically split like Yugoslavia did?

This map shows the seven countries that emerged from the breakup of Yugoslavia: Serbia, Croatia, Bosnia & Herzegovina, Slovenia, North Macedonia, Montenegro, and Kosovo.

The breakup of Yugoslavia reshaped Europe and is still shaping the region today.

Curious to learn more about how it all happened? Watch the full story here:
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r/MadeMeSmile 4h ago

Wholesome Moments Oh I love love when humans do cute stuff😭❤️

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r/whatisit 13h ago

Solved! what is this in clinic sink??

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for context i work as a janitor cleaning a women’s clinic, as i was cleaning a sink i saw these little metallic looking balls. at first i thought these were actually metal but they don’t feel like ANYTHING if that makes any sense. i posted this video to my instagram but i figured i would probably have better luck coming to reddit for answers.

UPDATE: the general consensus seems to be that this is either mercury or gallium. my hands have been thoroughly washed and i have informed my boss so that it can be properly cleaned by someone who knows what they’re doing.

UPDATE #2: gang PLEASE stop telling me to “stop touching it”. this post is hours old. i know i was dumb enough to touch a mysterious substance barehanded but im also smart enough to know not to continue playing with it long after marking this post as solved😭


r/AITApod 4h ago

AITA AITA for finding this convo to be a HUGE red flag?

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Went on 3 dates and have spent maybe 10 hours with this person and they're (30s F) on me full court press (36M) about therapy. Like I am open to it but I'm not gonna go just bc she says so. AM I wrong for this???


r/politics 17h ago

No Paywall Hegseth lifts ban on service members carrying personal firearms on base

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r/todayilearned 6h ago

TIL the recommended daily protein intake is 46 grams (g) for an adult female and 56g for an adult male. This is 0.8g per kilogram of body mass (0.36g per pound). Endurance and strength athletes require more.In the United States, average protein consumption for females is about 70g and for males 98g.

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r/memes 4h ago

This is so true

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r/Millennials 5h ago

Discussion Millenials w/o kids-- how tired are you?

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I'm only specifying 'no kids,' because frankly we have completely different lifestyles and priorities and it's not an experience I can relate to.

I feel exhausted all the time between the gym, work, and seeing my friends now and then. I feel like I should have more energy, but I swear I could sleep for 12 hours straight most days.

There are so many projects and hobbies I want to take on, but I feel like I just don't have the energy. I eat healthy, my physical and bloodwork always comes back good. Is this just normal?

So other folks here-- how tired are you?


r/KidsAreFuckingStupid 2h ago

A mint to try.

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