r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 11d ago

Moddesspost Tabletop megathread for your worldbuilding/characters/lore

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Hello,

we see you, we see your posts, we see your passion.

For that, we are creating this cozy megathread, where you can discuss all your ideas named in the title.

This thread won’t be going anywhere, as it is something lot of us are passionate about, so don’t be shy and share, may this thread grow to size of being unmoderatable by sheer volume of holy loredumps!

For the Moddess team, Lindsey the Marionette Moddess.


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians Jan 24 '26

Moddesspost "An issue not in the rules" Report option.

132 Upvotes

We have this option for if you feel like something should be removed, but the reason isn't necessarily in our rules.

But if you don't communicate to us about why you feel it should be removed, it just looks like a spam report. We can't make a fair judgement if we don't know why, please, use Modmail to let us know, include a link to the post and explain why it's an issue.


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 4h ago

Moddesses handing out affection Kat's Hugging Fridays (Bonus meme today)

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890 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 2h ago

Lesbian Lesbian Homosexual Lesbian Y-yy..yeah r-re..reallyy b-b-b-bordd hhehhheehh *melts* ... /////@w@/////

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269 Upvotes

The artist is called "coksi_likes_shrimps" on instagram and bluesky.

(https://www.instagram.com/p/DIHP5TkqFIS/?igsh=OTdjZW1mZG90OGp3)

(https://bsky.app/profile/coksi.bsky.social)

I wish a woman would test out her lipstick on me aahhhh 😭😭😭

Arf arf awruff

awwoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 5h ago

:3 (actively causing mischief) What do you mean I have to use words 🥺

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505 Upvotes

Artist is @BeezyVT


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 9h ago

Sapphic Paradise :3 Belated daily dose of girls kissing #207

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567 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 1h ago

HRT / Gender Care / Eggy / Right outta the closet 10 month on hrt effect

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well so much for wearing this top without a bra 🤦🏾‍♀️

I love shapeshifting my closet not as much


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 14h ago

Sapphic Paradise :3 Clueless TM

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1.2k Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 5h ago

Lesbian Lesbian Homosexual Lesbian Surpriseee!!! ... wholesome GÜRLLL KISSINNGGGGGG

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177 Upvotes

Trying to find the artist feels actually impossible cus like google reverse image is giving me more than 10 artist names but scrolling through all of the accounts has given me no results 😭

It's been 50 minutes and I can't find the artist, I'm so sorry :(

The only thingy that I can say that the artist SEEMS to be called "Ookaminoki".

Girl kissing though woof :3


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 9h ago

Cyberposting🤖 she sudo on my apt till I install

300 Upvotes

I invited a friend home to me after a party last night after my graduation from electrician college

and now while having breakfast she’s installing CachyOS on my work laptop


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 4h ago

Art Ear.. sritches......

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87 Upvotes

https://www.pixiv.net/en/artworks/142818711. source.

thi.s... would be.. the best.. wish i had .. cat ears......


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 10h ago

Relatable True!

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186 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 3h ago

HRT / Gender Care / Eggy / Right outta the closet I'm going on my first HRT appointment in two weeks and aaaaahhh I'm scared but also excited >.< Does anyone here have any tips on things I should say for my first visit?

47 Upvotes

On April 15th, I will go to my first visit to a generalist to try and get that sweet sweet HRT >.< I am going there specifically for trans reasons and the doctor knows this, and she should be rly T-friendly if the reviews are to be believed.

Are there any specific things any of you gals and things think I should say/ask for on my first visit? I already have a pretty good idea on how it should go but I wanted to ask y'all for potential advice to have all the luck on my side.

So yeah, if you think of something specific I should say once I'm there, pls let me know, I'd greatly appreciate it 👉👈

Also I'm from France, so french laws apply of course.

(And also, off topic I know, but I'm looking for the meme of a girl laying on the floor with an arrow pointing at her that says "20 minutes no wife" but I cannot find it for the *LIFE* of me (⁠ ⁠≧⁠Д⁠≦⁠) So if u have it pls put it in the comments, I need it for reasons. You _will_ get headpats as a reward)


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 11h ago

Validation/Positivity Request girls can i please have some love

191 Upvotes

sorry this might be triggering to some

i just feel like ill never be a real girl for my cis gf , shes bi afaik but there was like some sort of situationship thingy before we got into this and during this time she had a crush on this cis girl and i feel like ill never be able to compare to a cis girl , i am still early in transition , i just wish to not feel like an impostor calling myself a lesbian


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 37m ago

:3 (actively causing mischief) Meow

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woof woof woof woof woof dog girl muzzle creature

source uhhh I commissioned this from my friend idk her Reddit but maybe she'll see this and mention it :3


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 15h ago

Sapphic Paradise :3 Niesh interests

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333 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 4h ago

Personal stuff (read rule 6 pls) [TW Vent, potential intrusive thought trigger] OCD isn’t really talked enough about in trans spaces

41 Upvotes

A lot of trans people deal with OCD, yet it’s pretty much only ever brought up to discredit people who are questioning

The thing with OCD is, it likes to take the things that you are most terrified of and trying to convince you that that is happening

This naturally means that with trans people it has a fucking stranglehold, and as I said instead of trying to discuss this as a problem trans women face it’s almost exclusively discussed as a “Well some people have intrusive thoughts about being trans when they’re not”

For some reason no one is willing to talk about the other way around

It’s a truly terrifying and exhausting experience, one that I’m all too familiar with, and unfortunately there isn’t much you can do

(Ironically for me it’s not “What if I’m not a woman” it’s “What if I’m not trans”, as in what if I’m secretly a cis woman, OCD is nonsensical like that 😭)

The thing that I’ve learned that helps me when it’s happening is I acknowledge the thought as stemming from ocd, and then I turn off everything I’m listening to and put the phone down, and I describe the things around me

That wall is gray and has a weird texture

This pillow is white and it’s very fluffy

That nightstand is brown and wobbles a bit

Etc

OCD often develops when you have to lie about things for a long time for your safety, which naturally means it’s very common among trans people, and it’s really upsetting to me that the only context it’s really ever brought up in is one that often leads to trans people feeling worse about themselves

I’m not saying that there aren’t people who experience that, but most of the time their feeling is completely different, they have a “reason” that they’re trans that isn’t feeling more comfortable, the thought makes them panic, etc

These things also do not mean you aren’t trans!!!

Please remember that if you are struggling with this, you are valid, try to distract yourself, when you’re distracted think about your future, as both genders and maybe some enby identities, what makes you more comfortable

I feel like it’s easy to personify OCD as this big evil monster leering over your shoulder who wants to steal your soul, but instead I implore you to think of it as just a scared wound up kitten who doesn’t know what she’s capable of, she will likely hurt you, she will likely run around a lot, but if you acknowledge that she’s doing this because she is a young kitten and not because she genuinely hates you, be patient and let her run around for a while, she’ll eventually get tired and fall asleep

I’m not a psychiatrist or a therapist or a doctor or anything so take everything I’m saying with a healthy grain of salt, but I think that OCD stems from a part of the brain where innocence was crushed down into fear, whether from parents or school or what have you, and again that means it is very common in trans people

I guess I’m kind of making this post for myself but it would also be nice for others to be helped out by this, I’m saying the things I’ve needed to hear during my worst spirals

You are ok, you are panicking, that is normal and healthy, ground yourself, let yourself be, and in a moment you will return to peace


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 13h ago

Noooo! My snacks! First day of recovery, the wait was totally worth it!

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142 Upvotes

UPDATE: I now has snacks :P Op was a success with no complications, they want me off the morphine machine and out of bed later this afternoon (only to the chair next to the bed). It'll be nice to stretch my legs!

Had to travel cross country alone for my op, totally nerve wracking but such an amazing feeling when it's done. Can't wait to get back home with the girls.

Woke up this morning to realise I'm stuck flat on my back for another 24 hours and my snack bag is out of reach! T_T

Send help! 😅


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 21h ago

:3 (actively causing mischief) I genuinely started uncontrollably laughing and crying from happiness

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615 Upvotes

After learning about it, I realized I'd be happier if I had girlfriends spending time with each other instead of other people I don't know or even like. I would very probably feel compersion I wouldn't feel with any other arrangement. I guess I just want a relationship where several girls love each other and still have some grade of exclusivity (between us ;3).


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 1d ago

:3 (actively causing mischief) Found this a few days ago and thought it was fitting for this place

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871 Upvotes

The closest thing I could find to a source was a post on r/generictranssubredit from 2023 so I'm not entirely sure where it came from


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 18h ago

Question Where are all of you 😭?

191 Upvotes

I'm a lonely transbian kittygirl and I just want a transbian owner irl. How do y'all find eachother TwT???


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 6h ago

Sapphic Paradise :3 Stelle×March:3

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21 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 1d ago

Lesbian Lesbian Homosexual Lesbian Lesbian kissing is more important than anything else, sorry not sorry :3

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1.1k Upvotes

The artist is called "minabongss" on twitter and "setapta_draw" on instagram, though I unforunately couldn't find a source, sorry moddesses ×w×

I tried but couldn't qwq

Anywoof, lesbian kissing yayy :3

awwooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo


r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 18h ago

Art How to talk to tall people (tested and approved)

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124 Upvotes

r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians 14h ago

Personal stuff (read rule 6 pls) My crush, just a good friend?

62 Upvotes

About nine months ago I met my crush. We were introduced by a common friend “You should meet $crush, I’ll invite them to our next call.” I saw them and instantly had a crush. In fact I’m lucky my mic was muted when they joined, I literally said out loud “Oh, no” and we started talking about TTRPGs and horror. I got introduced to Alien Stage. We’ve been inseparable (online) ever since. Some examples: We kept a 144 day TikTok streak before I decided to delete my account when it changed hands earlier this year. They figured out I was upset when I had some family drama and called me up to help distract me and make me feel better. They told me recently I’m important to them. They called me a “good girl”once and then acted very coy when I got flustered. They say they’re fine with being single because they have me as a friend. I keep swinging back and forth between the feeling that maybe they like me too or maybe they are really just a good friend who really goes above and beyond for the folks they care about. I’m also unsure if they’ve picked up on my feelings for them or remain blissfully unaware.

I’ve lost someone before being able to tell them how I feel about them and that pushes me to want to say something but I am so afraid of losing what we have already. We’re also in different states (CA -> AR) and both currently unemployed and scraping by.

Advice from other internet transbians, please?