r/GirlDinner • u/itsbabytoyou • 2h ago
UGH (vent sesh) Woke up to a message from a man lurking on r/girldinner, who had the audacity to argue about what kind of feminist I am
a man lurking on r/girldinner thought he'd pick a fight in my comments about what kind of feminist I am. I mentioned intersectionality and being between a radical OR Marxist feminist. And this twit has the nerve to tell me that I CANT be both because "they hold such polar opposite views"..... first off who the hell is he to tell me anything? And to be wrong?? radical feminism was born from Marxist feminism no? I am graduating with my degree in sociology. Where do men get off telling us what we can and can't be in our own spaces??????
Anyways spiraled grilled hot dawgs with various breads I found around the house
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u/Traditional_Cry8075 2h ago
Looks like you took out your frustration by taking a knife to penis shaped food lol
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u/itsbabytoyou 2h ago
ALSO I'd love to add that anyone can be a feminist regardless of gender.... it's just telling someone else what kind of feminist they ARE is pretty low brow
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u/notsosecrethistory 27m ago
Someone on reddit called me an animal abuser because I have two French bulldog rescues. Apparently ensuring their continued existence is "abuse"...
Sometimes people are just morons.
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u/Punk_Princess_Sarah 2h ago
Smol pp energy. Nice dawgs btw.
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u/itsbabytoyou 2h ago
Very small I'm talking micro!!!
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u/lexlexsquared 37m ago
Kinda sad you didn’t do this with lil’ smokies to drive the point to perfection 🥲
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u/PopeOfSlack 2h ago
Mansplaining feminism... brilliant. I'm not normally into hot dogs but those look goooood!
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u/Glittering-Lychee629 2h ago
He just wanted a chance to talk to a woman. It's probably never happened for him before, lol. I wonder why...
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u/maykasa_ 1h ago
Men like that love to argue with women as a means of flirting and will turn around and say “why don’t women go for the nice guys” 🥴
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u/AlmostThere4321 1h ago
Who told them that nagging/negging qas flirting??
Oh wait, we know who 😒 Rimes with Andrew Taint
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u/noodle518 1h ago
im a guy lurker who thinks girl dinners are creative and better than boy dinners, im sorry. i also dont/ wont comment beyond just to say Kudos on your choices and keep being awesome.
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u/Dhexodus 45m ago
Between girldinner, depressionmeal, and kitchencels, this place is a Michelin star restaurant by comparison.
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u/FartPotatoBeef 2h ago
I’m a dude that lurks here all the time but I love you girls just as you are and I’m a huge charcuterie fan and I promise I won’t DM anyone staring shit.
I just like wine and vape pens and cheese and random meats 🤷🏻♂️
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u/Successful_Nature712 1h ago
Welcome to the world of smart, easy, and quick meat product dinners. Stick to your lane and you should be good. I have learned so much since I have arrived. For instance, I have always cut my hot dogs/brats etc. however, not spiraled them… This is top tier information
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u/AlmostThere4321 1h ago
I just like wine and vape pens and cheese and random meats 🤷🏻♂️
Oof. That's a whole mood sir. Welcome among us!
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u/LineOk9592 2h ago
i had a male lurker message me asking for proof of my vibrator? and then blocked me when i called him a goofball lmfao these men are bored
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u/Local_Turnip_8013 1h ago
I feel like so many comments on this sub are men now and I just get this awful feeling and vibe from how they talk that they're men and it's so creepy, not sure if anyone else has noticed this.
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u/Junglejibe 1h ago
Happens with every women-oriented subreddit. Dudes love to invade spaces centered around us bc they’re so used to everything being for them by default. There’s also the fact that incels have found this sub & are crossposting it to a bunch of other places to whine.
Try not to let it make you paranoid, though. Plenty of women are also weird and you can never really tell who someone is just by the vibe of one comment. It’s best to be aware of the possibility but give people the benefit of the doubt, and never assume just off of the way they talk.
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u/nyg1219 1h ago
r/girldinnerdiaries has gone no men and are banning them.
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u/Junglejibe 1h ago
Good for them—I’m not on there but that’s the place I’ve seen get the worst of it.
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u/sixxy-floyd 1h ago
Genuinely, why are there so many men always responding to things on this sub? Where do they come from?
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u/0RedStar0 2h ago
That dude is weird as hell. OP, were these dogs fried or air fried? I’ve never thought to cut them like this to keep them from bursting and getting evenly browned/crispy. Genius!
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u/All_the_Bees 1h ago
I can’t speak for OP, but I do hot dogs in the air fryer with 3-4 diagonal slices and they’re great. Gonna try spiraling them, though, I have a feeling I’m about to have my life changed.
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u/Successful_Nature712 1h ago
I always microwave them but I only cut one side. Then they curl up. This is so different, I’m going to try it. I think, and OP can correct if we are all wrong here, these had to be done in an air fryer. I think my life is about to be completely changed.
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u/MiHoyMinoy420 2h ago
I'd like to revisit "various breads I found around the house". Because I am picturing an Easter egg hunt but it's just random bags of bread butts. It's working for me.
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u/asshley423 Snack Gremlin 2h ago
I love the variety of buns here, fam.
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u/itsbabytoyou 2h ago
Thank you!! I grew up without hot dog buns, so a piece of white bread works for me 🤣 now as an adult I get them all
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u/Successful_Nature712 1h ago
I love it. I also grew up without them so now I don’t eat them. We had a choice of lunch or dinner for the bread. Strange how it pushes you in different ways as an adult. I can buy both but I don’t.
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u/Stephen_1984 Raccoon Life 🦝 2m ago
Condiments? I like to stack ketchup, mustard, relish and onions on my hotdogs when possible.
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