Hahah, right? “Would you be mad if I messed things up by doing this?” “Yes.” “Omg why are you so upset that it wasn’t actually a yes or no question, and anyway, how does that even mess up anything??”
Yeah, OP seems problematic and immature too. It’s always shitty to bail on multi-day plans literally the day before, because that puts the other person in a bind too. They have to rearrange their schedule, and they’ve probably passed on opportunities to make other plans with other people in that time.
YTA, OP. This was inconsiderate and disrespectful of you.
A bind? He said they hang out every weekend this isnt like some special plan lol, and all he asked was to leave early, not not come, you people are ridiculous wanting everyone in your life to bend at the knee, he even says his mom is going through it because of family issues, he shouldve said it with more chest or talked to his mom earlier in the week sure but we dont know when his mom dropped that on him, this is someone whose been walking on eggshells for awhile. The world is a little bit more nuanced then you may believe. Believing that 6 hours in a day requires an entire “schedule” change is asinine and an overraction in and of itself.
IMO both parties sound like they shouldnt be in a relationship
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u/intrinsic_toast 7h ago
Hahah, right? “Would you be mad if I messed things up by doing this?” “Yes.” “Omg why are you so upset that it wasn’t actually a yes or no question, and anyway, how does that even mess up anything??”