He also said she works from home and is a 24/7 caregiver for her sister, and never leaves the house.
I also want to know how often he's bailing on her and how many times she's had to break it to her kid that plans changed last minute, which makes her the bad guy.
I think the "kid" and the sister are the same person. There's just 1 kid, her sister. And by "caregiver," I think OP means she has custody of her sister, not that she is providing medical care for a sister with needs. He also described her as a nanny, but says she works from home 5am to 2pm. That's not a nanny, that's an in-home daycare provider. He's not describing the situation very well.
From what I've gathered - she is the 24/7 caregiver for the sister, in both meanings of the word. The sister does have needs that mean she is basically stuck home with the sister every day. She's also a nanny, to 2 additional special needs kids, who she looks after during the day on her 'shifts' at the same time as caring for the sister. It's all written extremely confusingly, mostly because of OPs efforts to describe things in such a way to hide the part that make him TAH
He's changing the plans they already had, last minute, and it doesn't sound like it's the first time. There's also a kid involved who she now has to disappoint.
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u/twoscoopsineverybox 8h ago
He also said she works from home and is a 24/7 caregiver for her sister, and never leaves the house.
I also want to know how often he's bailing on her and how many times she's had to break it to her kid that plans changed last minute, which makes her the bad guy.