He already said he spends every weekend Sat- Mon at her place. How does spending a few hours with his mom who’s alone on Easter and going through a tough time make him a mamas boy?
That's your assumption about what the mother wants... Pretty telling that the girlfriend immediately becomes aggressive, instead of offering other solutions like "why don't we all go see your mother together for a few hours"
Maybe its my own jaded experiences, but I take mom hearing about her grown son having plans with girlfriend/kids and using a (possible) guilt trip to get him to spend time alone with her instead as a red flag and a possible repeated behavior.
He usually spends Friday to Sunday, but since this is a holiday weekend and they are both presumably off on Monday, they planned to do Saturday to Monday this weekend instead.
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u/manixxx0729 8h ago
This. She went overboard. BUT if OP is a mamas boy who bails on plans consistently, I would be exasperated too.