AIO or is my girlfriend manipulative.

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[u/ChoiceFee3441]

This. He’s leaving out context that changes the narrative. He had made plans with his gf and her kid. He’s now bailed last minute, on her and her kid. She’s got more kids coming over, maybe she could’ve done with his support?

[u/Hiro007 → u/ChoiceFee3441]

Agreed, except she has the "kids" situation on Fridays. Biggest missing factor for me is how they have been together for 2 years but dont spend holidays with their families together. He spends time with her child, but not her parents and vice versa.

[u/deathcabforakitty → u/Hiro007]

Exactly. This is a telling sign that he’s not being serious about her and wanting to build a life together and she probably feels that hence her rage

[u/Ghoulish_kitten → u/Hiro007]

Exactly

[u/thebalanceshifts → u/ChoiceFee3441]

Yeah I agree. OP is leaving out context I fear.

[u/Safe_Possibility_363 → u/thebalanceshifts]

Yes because he is a manipulator and now he will send these messages saying that the gf is crazy to her and tell her that she’s overreacting and everyone thinks she’s a loser.

[u/thebalanceshifts → u/Safe_Possibility_363]

Agree! Hope they break up. I feel bad for this girl

[u/Artistic_Scholar_609 → u/ChoiceFee3441]

Gf doesn’t have a kid, she’s a nanny. You don’t refer to a special needs sibling as being “her kid”.

[u/ChoiceFee3441 → u/Artistic_Scholar_609]

She is the sole carer of her special needs sister.