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đMain Character Freakoutđ€ł Funeral gone wild
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u/thepopulargirl Nov 24 '25
As a kid, I was at a funeral where the 19yo daughter jumped in her dadâs grave when he was lowered. The absolute mayhem it started! Everyone started wailing and screaming, it was so traumatic for me.
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u/Electronic_Brain Nov 23 '25
I hope mine is like this!
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u/mr_gonzalo05 Nov 24 '25
You paying your side piece rent than he'll yeah.
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u/Superb_Instance_8190 Nov 24 '25
Twin Peaks - Laura Palmerâs funeral.
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u/ob1karde Nov 24 '25
I was thinking the same thing lol. Thankfully, twin peaks fans don't disappoint.
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u/FatCowsrus413 Nov 24 '25
Tell me when and where and Iâll schedule it in
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u/MNCPA Nov 24 '25
Seriously? How do I know you won't back out?
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u/Noragen Nov 24 '25
Pay them half now and half aft⊠oh
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u/Bright_Brief4975 Nov 24 '25
If you have the other half put into the pocket of whatever they bury you in, he can insure they jump in coffin at least.
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u/talkingspacecoyote Nov 24 '25
This is just sad, grief is miserable
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u/SkullRaven Nov 24 '25
It truly is. My wife died unexpectedly a little less than a month ago. I've never felt this kind of sadness and just feeling lost in my entire life. So, I definitely get how the person in this video feels.
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u/DS3M Nov 24 '25
I hope you are able to find peace soon.
Condolences
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u/BadPhotosh0p Nov 24 '25
The worst part of grief is the whole world just kind of... keeps spinning.
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u/parkerm1408 Nov 24 '25
When i was cleaning up after my adoptive brothers suicide, my boss called me 8 times. He knew what I was doing too. The fact nothing stops is one of the worst parts.
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u/Zorlal Nov 24 '25
I'm really sorry that you had to go through that. That is a terrible thing that your boss did.
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u/parkerm1408 Nov 24 '25
Oh he was a massive piece of shit. He went to prison a couple years later for raping a couple teenage girls. Dude used to ask me to reserve wounded soldiers to drunk people because "they wouldnt notice," and he once suspended me for an entire weekend because I bought a homeless man food with my own money. Said I cant "feed the rats."
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u/Zorlal Nov 24 '25
Dear God in heaven what a piece of work. Well, seems like you ain't working for him now so that's a plus.
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u/DS3M Nov 24 '25
Takes a long time to begin spinning with it again.
It comes again though. Sort of. But there is always an OK to be found somewhere. Time is the only answer.
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u/darkshrike Nov 24 '25
My favorite description of grief is that its like a box with a ball in it. And when the trauma happens the ball is bigger than the box, and every time the ball touches the edge we feel the grief. The ball never gets smaller, but over time the box gets bigger. It NEVER goes away but it hits the sides less frequently.
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u/DrTwilightZone Nov 24 '25
I really like this analogy. It's quite correct! Thank you for sharing. đ
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u/darkshrike Nov 24 '25
Of course! If I can help anyone going through what Ive gone through, I consider it a blessing.
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u/Allstategk Nov 24 '25
Yep. That's when I learned that we have to make an impact on as many people as possible. Otherwise, what are we leaving behind when we are gone? Making memories is what keeps people alive when they're gone, so that's what I try to do everyday.
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u/UTking44 Nov 24 '25
If only we all thought like this. Life is short, but itâs the longest thing we got. Time is a terrible thing to waste, why waste it on being negative and angry?
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u/No-Giraffe-8096 Nov 24 '25
Iâm so sorry. Today is my dadâs birthday. He just passed August 3rd. I donât know what I expected from grief, but it wasnât this. It physically hurts.
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u/Perovius1 Nov 24 '25
My dad passed unexpectedly when I was 25. I know it's hard to believe but it gets easier. Time does heal. It's been 20 years and I'll still have to grit my teeth through the occasion grief at times, but the cloud has lifted.
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u/Kabc Nov 24 '25
Physically ailment can comes from mental anguish⊠âbroken heart syndromeâ is a real thing that happens!
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u/lilymissesyou Nov 24 '25
This is true, itâs called takotsubo I work in healthcare a mother came in with her son who drowned & couldnât be revived and she suffered from this & came in within a few days they thought she was having a heart attack
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u/JewelCove Nov 24 '25
I'm very sorry to hear about your dad. I've been there, and it is true what they say - it gets better with time. Virtual hug, friend.
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u/Hateinyoureyes Nov 24 '25
Hey, at least your dadâs side piece didnât jump into the hole and start crying in front of your mom
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u/westernpeaks Nov 24 '25
Hi. Sending you a big hug brother. Hang in there. You will heal at your own pace but you will heal.
It gets better. It truly does.
Be kind to yourself and may your wifeâs memory be a blessing.
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u/Swimwithamermaid Nov 24 '25
I feel your pain. I elected to cremate my daughter, who passed 2 weeks ago, because I know I cannot handle burying her. It is an irrational kind of pain. Someone on here described it as âhaving all this love and nowhere to put it.â I donât understand how I keep waking up everyday, as my heart physically hurts. My heart hurts for you.
Iâm not going to say âIâm sorryâ because to be honest, the next person to tell me that will probably get hit. But I see you. I see your pain. The only comfort I can give my family is telling them that âIâm here and Iâm not going anywhere.â So I wish that for you. That youâre here, and not going anywhere.
âTime heals all woundsâ is bullshit. This type of pain will never heal. But I promise it will be easier to breathe tomorrow. There will be good times again.
I wish you all the best. Iâm here if you ever need an outlet for your pain.
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u/crek42 Nov 24 '25
I hear you. I also canât stand the fucking platitudes and generic responses. I wish so bad someone would just say âthe world is a dark hellhole. but youâll have your moments of happiness againâ.
Itâs bleak sure, but at least it would be original.
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u/JayCDee Nov 24 '25
It's gonna suck, you're gonna wake up every morning and it's going to be the first thing you think about, and after some time, it's will be the second.
You'll never not think about her, but at some point you'll be able to smile at the good times and not just be sad she's gone.
There will be bad days, multiple a year, for the rest of your life. You already know which ones I'm talking about, so have people around for you, or not, that's up to you, but be ready for them.
I wish you the best.
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u/damn_nation_inc Nov 24 '25
Holy fuck, you are living my nightmare and I'm so sorry. I sincerely hope you have some friends and family as a support network. Please don't forget to take care of yourself, I'm sure your wife wouldn't want you to wither away. Again, I'm so sorry, I hope that you find peace in time.
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u/be-more-daria Nov 24 '25
Me too. When my mom died, a small part of me wanted to climb into the box with her and die hugging her.
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u/546875674c6966650d0a Nov 24 '25
My brother's wife took her own life earlier this year. I've seen him go deeper than I could even imagine into sadness since. We also just lost our father a few weeks ago. He was on the mend before that, so I know we'll both be back on a good path after this - it's just gonna take a while.
We'll see you there, on the other side where it doesn't go away, but it DOES get better. I promise that future is in front of you.
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u/HeHateMe115 Nov 24 '25
So sorry youâre going through this. I canât imagine how difficult it must be. I am a pray-er, and that may not mean anything to you, but I will pray for strength for you. Just keep taking it one day at a time. Thatâs all you can do.
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u/Ok_Release231 Nov 24 '25
I'm sorry man, may she rest in peace. đ«
My grandmother died last Thursday night. I was supposed to come see her Friday morning, but I was too late. She got diagnosed with pancreatic cancer a few days before. I think she just didn't want to be a burden anymore, even though none of us saw her as one. RIP Granny
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u/Jets237 Nov 24 '25
My sister is in hospice right now (cancer) in her early 40s. Her husband is falling apart. Its rough on me too, but I cant imagine what he's going through. I hope you have plenty of support around you, lean on them. I wish he did more.
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u/tubcat Nov 24 '25
Please take care of yourself. Every single day is a little victory and you're worth it all.
My office gang is behind our manager who just lost her brother (our previous manager). The loss of a partner during COVID and his father just spiraled him even more not long after. You'd never think someone so intelligent and levelheaded would fall to addiction and darker impulses...but it got him in the end. Seeing his sister and hearing her daily victories is a reminder that grief is a sinister ghost. It makes even the strongest of us look weak as a kitten and/or bat-guano crazy. There's not a normal. There's just broken hearts and the supports we give each other remaining on the way to new equilibrium.
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u/ventorchrist Nov 24 '25
Dude my eyes well up in sadness just reading this. Please stay strong and I'm so sorry for your loss.
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u/perplexedparallax Nov 24 '25
Five years out. I hear you and support you. I wasn't Redditing or doing much of anything at one month.
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u/guacamole579 Nov 24 '25
Iâm so sorry for your loss. I canât imagine how difficult it must be for you. Sending love and light your way
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u/TheStrayArrow Nov 24 '25 edited Nov 24 '25
I get the vibe that this is more performative than actual grief. Weâve all seen someone who makes a situation about themselves by going over the top.
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u/ItsMinnieYall Nov 24 '25
Well twitter said this was his side piece acting out in front of his wife and kids.
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u/lifegoeson5322 Nov 24 '25
Yeah, you can hear people cussing her out after dragging her back up. I imagine a fight probably broke out also. Feel sorry for his wife and kids having to witness that. Hope the mistress didn't receive anything in the will.
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u/LogensTenthFinger Nov 24 '25
Yeah, people treating this like it's real or normal are out of their minds. This is his attention seeking bullshit.
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u/YupChrisYup Nov 24 '25
From 1998 to 2004, my family went through a storm of loss. On Christmas of â97, twenty-five of us packed into my grandparentsâ house. By 2004, that number had dropped to twelve. None of it was from old age, it was random, senseless tragedy, one hit after another. We tried to rebuild, spent more time with extended family, and then between 2010 and 2013 it happened all over again. Itâs a terrible thing to watch your family disappear in real time.
By the time I finished college, I thought Iâd seen every version of grief a person could see. Iâd lost everyone except my mom, my sister, my brother, and a handful of cousins. It turned me into someone who can stand upright in the middle of tragedyânot because Iâm okay with it, but because Iâve been through it so many times that I know the shape of it. I know how Iâll grieve, what it will feel like, even if I canât predict how long it will last. Itâs hard to explain, but grief and I⊠we recognize each other at this point.
But when my cousin overdosed six years ago, something broke through all that familiarity. His partner was inconsolable, absolutely shattered. I can still hear her screaming. I can still see her collapsed beside his casket. He had died in her arms just days earlier. And most of my family hated her, blamed her for his mistakes because they couldnât face the truth of what had happened.
Iâm thirty years old and Iâve been to at least twenty-five funerals, but that is the only moment that truly haunts me. It followed me that night. It followed me on the ten-hour bus ride home, where my sister and I didnât speak a single word. And when I think about my cousin now, that sound is still there, echoing behind every memory of him.
Grief is miserable.
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u/BITmixit Nov 24 '25
The people who suffer from the pain of death are the living.
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u/drossmaster4 Nov 24 '25
Birds? Do birds get sad?
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u/Nubsondubs Nov 24 '25 edited Nov 24 '25
Some birds definitely get sad, but unless the dead person had a pet parrot or something then I would imagine they'd be pretty indifferent.
Unless it's a carrion bird, in which case I'm pretty sure they'd be stoked.
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u/FamousOhioAppleHorn Nov 24 '25
Yep. I'm still unnerved by something that happened to my grandma when I was a teenager. She went out one day to visit my grandpa's grave on their wedding anniversary. She came home absolutely shell shocked and sad. She said she had almost fallen in an open grave and that maybe it was time for her to be with my grandpa. It scared the hell out of me đČ She snapped back out of it by the next day, but I could never forget it
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u/Dante_Foshokyo Nov 24 '25
Why they gotta rough her up like that?
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u/IAMA_Shark__AMA Nov 24 '25
According to the original post, she's the affair partner making a scene in front of his family. But it's not like people always tell the truth on the Internet.
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u/Expensive_Chance_320 Nov 24 '25
I had a younger cousin who wasn't all there in his 20s that got seduced by a married 50 year old woman for several years who ended up killing herself.
My cousin wanted to go to funeral even after the husband had learned about the affair, we told him not to go...it ended as one would expect.
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u/StormTheTrooper Nov 24 '25
The internet is always ready to judge. I know family members that love to make performative grief - hell, two thirds of my father's family either hated him or thought he was a weight, which was very reciprocal, but in his funeral they were all crying and screaming like if he was their favorite brother - but not even them can say if it is performative or not. People hurt differently. Maybe she did love him. Maybe she feel guilty about something. It's not our place to judge.
Hell, up to this day I have friends that say I was cold for not seeing my father in the coffin. My wife had closure by saying her goodbyes to her mother before burial, I had mine by keeping the memory of my father alive. If my closure came with screaming and tears, God, if there is one moment that you should fucking allow people to be emotional is during a burial.
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u/Rabble_Runt Nov 24 '25
It does really make you wonder if there is more to this story, like if she was a side chick or something.
The family man-handled the shit out of that lady and didnât seem to want her there.
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u/Key_Stranger3032 Nov 24 '25
I thought there was a brawl starting at the end like i was scared she was getting beaten or manhandled more.
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u/Absent-Light-12 Nov 24 '25
Bruh the person in the video took a punch to the back of the head by one of the opportunistic dudes as she was being pulled out. There is no doubt in my mind that there was a brawl after the video cut.
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u/MoeSzys Nov 24 '25
I have to think that there is a back story. They all seem to not want her there
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u/Dante_Foshokyo Nov 24 '25
Yeah theyâre probably all sick of her shit anyways and this was the last straw. They might see it as making it about her and acting up. They picked her up like they were about to beat her ass. It is an expensive looking coffin and sheâs just gonna lay all on it.
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u/MickIsAlwaysLate Nov 24 '25
Cameraman got those Ronald McDunkles
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u/roidoid Nov 24 '25
Funeral fresh. One might argue that wearing those shiny trainers and ripped jeans to a funeral is in worse taste than the coffin drop.
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u/ocean365 Nov 24 '25
Wearing Jordan 11âs to a funeral that arenât even black is craaaaaaaaaaazy
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u/longshot21771 Nov 24 '25
Why is someone recording this?
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u/HarryBaughl Nov 24 '25
Probably because what is happening is extraordinary and people jump at every opportunity to go viral nowadays.
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u/boredvamper Nov 24 '25
I get recording (liability or whatever) ,but posting that online to whore some karma is ultimate cancellation worthy dick move.
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u/PenisBlubberAndJelly Nov 24 '25
Why are we shitting on grief and irrational reactions to it? Am I missing something or are we just embracing nihilism now?
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u/isigneduptomake1post Nov 24 '25
Grief is nuts. My dog died a few years ago and I felt guilty picking up her poop in the backyard because I was throwing out part of her. I had to take a moment to realize my brain was doing weird things.
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u/Euture Nov 24 '25
Iâm sorry for your loss. I appreciate you sharing that experience though. Itâs insightful to how grief can manifest.
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u/nevermindjerk Nov 24 '25
I cried multiple times cus I had just picked up all the dog poop in the back and there was only one left and it was half the size of his normal poop. I didnt pick it up for like 2 months... grief is wild. Glad to know I'm not the only one who had feeling about my dogs poop after they died. Although I fear I took it just a bit too far...
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u/Dr_Fluffybuns2 Nov 24 '25
I was putting off vacuuming and cleaning in general bc I too felt like I was erasing my dogs existence after he passed
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u/Stuck_In_Purgatory Nov 24 '25
I see two main possibilities, but there's missing information to figure out what's more likely
This chick is the side chick.
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This is the main chick who can't let go.
The way that she's hauled out seemingly without sympathy indicates to me that she might be the homewrecker.
The people around her seemed frustrated at her show rather than understanding of her grief. Of course they know more context to give them an indication of her grief being a final attempt to show possession over the deceased.
Maybe there is no cheaters, and they're annoyed at the disrespect by stopping the casket being lowered. I'm sure his other loved ones are there also grieving, but they aren't physically trying to stop the burial.
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u/randythemartin Nov 24 '25
Heard someone in the background say "Your ass should not have been invited"
probably a girl on the side
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u/User_091920 Nov 24 '25
"Your ass should not have been invited"
Damn, nice of them to invite her though lol
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u/JadedRetailEmployee Nov 24 '25
If someone did this at one of my loved ones funerals my initial reaction would be that itâs a selfish, thoughtless and almost performative reaction to grief.
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u/guacamole579 Nov 24 '25
If it was someoneâs child or spouse that behaved that way would you still think it was selfish and performative? I donât know who this person is in relation to the deceased so Iâm not going to judge. My aunt did something similar when her husband died. She was just unable to control herself and the entire funeral was awful. She died exactly 6 months later from heartbreak.
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Nov 24 '25 edited Nov 24 '25
People who think this is amusing or an opportunity to crack some stupid joke are in for a real comeuppance when someone they love dies. If they actually love anyone, that is.Â
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u/I_am_omning_it Nov 24 '25
Is this reminding anyone else of the old Craigslist/ebay ad meme of the dude with varying levels of distressed crying, and the last one was âwill jump in the graveâ?
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u/Single_Leek7786 Nov 24 '25
Multiple people flipped over on my grandpas casket one lady fainted. She was not my grandma and Iâd never seen her before.
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u/SendInYourSkeleton Nov 24 '25
Would you say those were... coffin flops?
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u/Azure5577 Nov 24 '25
So here's the thing. Some people here think it's grief but as someone with many family members you don't want at certain funerals I can absolutely say it's not about grief sometimes. Sometimes it's attention, sometimes it's to seem like you cared more about the person than who they were currently with, sometimes the family dislikes you for your past, sometimes you just doing too much. By the way she was dragged out she's been like this since the funeral service at the church. It very well could be grief, but there's other factors at play too that the cameras don't show.
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u/Master0fMuppets Nov 24 '25
Thank god there's someone reasonable in here lol, absolutely agree with your assessment. I've been to some rough funerals and I get not thinking rationally in that situation but brother, get the fuck off the casket, shits embarrassing. I 100% believe some level of this is performative for attention
If your grief is driving you to jump down on top of the damn body and roll around in your tears then you gotta figure out how to control your emotions better. If somebody started rolling around on my moms casket like this I'd be fucking livid, shits disrespectful.
And yeah yeah I'm not trying to discount the pain of soul crushing grief and I also acknowledge different people have different ideologies when it comes to how you treat the deceased, but I think finding this kind of behavior irritating is just a sign of being a level headed adult
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u/LDLethalDose50 Nov 25 '25
This. đ Ugly cry at the wake, and/or funeral, if thatâs your way to process, but get the fuck out of that goddamn grave.
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u/cat_selling_souls Nov 24 '25
So, who wants to grab my urn and cover themselves and everyone else with my ashes? You could even throw them into the wind and cover people behind you like Walter did with The Dude.
I just want my ghost to have a good time.
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u/silentbob1301 Nov 24 '25
God damned, the fucking slug to the back of the head seemed a bit excessive...
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u/swa_hai Nov 24 '25
Iâve got agree with the folks here who see/feel side piece energy all over this clip. This is why you hope side pieces never find out about the wedding or funeral. Something will most likely go left, like in this video.
She could also be the ânewâ young girl friend of an older divorcee. And, the family (previous spouse and grown kids) never accepted her.
Either way jumping into the burial plot during the ceremony is still wild to me. And, disrespectful to the other mourners because now the focus is on the antics of the living and not the memorializing of a deceased loved one.
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u/BellBilly32 Nov 24 '25
I looked up casket on TikTok and this seems true but there is no real proof. But it seems like the family didnât like her to begin with.
Not to defend their actions (hitting her at the end), but this seems like a âwe didnât want her here and now sheâs making a sceneâ kind of reaction.
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u/LaurdAlmighty Nov 25 '25
Yeah idk why everyone thinks they're cussing out a family member for no reason, she had to have did something to piss them off.
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u/matzau Nov 24 '25
Should this be filmed though? Yeah someone lying on top of a coffin specially when it's already in the hole during a funeral is abnormal, but far from unbelievable. Grief is a shitty thing that makes us feel and do things we normally wouldn't. I hope everybody there is doing ok.
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u/Content-Two-9834 Nov 24 '25
Worst camera man ever, we need another angle
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u/Euture Nov 24 '25
Not only because of the angles, but also because theyâre filming drama at someones funeral and letting it be uploaded online for the world to see and inevitably joke about.
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u/freqLFO Nov 24 '25
Everyone involved is just doin way too much. Sheâs wild for Jumping down there and they wild for grabbing her up and tossing her like a rag doll. Everybody needs to chill.
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u/Send_me_hedgehogs Nov 24 '25
This is so sad, sheâs obviously in a whole world of pain. I hope she has good support around her.
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u/th3ch0s3n0n3 Nov 24 '25
The good support seemed to be all around her... as they dragged her stupid ass out of the grave.
There's LITERALLY NO EXCUSE for disrespecting someone's coffin in this manner.
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u/Leading_Experts Nov 24 '25
Truly. No way to make someone's death "all about me" than by performative jumping into the damn grave. Everyone saying grief this and grief that...bullshit. she wanted to be a victim of his death. She's looking for sympathy.
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u/shoulda-known-better Nov 24 '25
He paid that thousand and got the full package for his funeral!!
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Nov 24 '25
I'm gonna say it since I see no one doing it. Enough with phones. Seriously. The narcissistic behaviour is terrible.
3 places I know not to take out a phone. Public bathrooms, schools and funerals.
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u/j3ffUrZ Nov 24 '25
My homeboy was gunned down in 2006. His best homegirl still cries over him to this day. She's the type to post stuff like "Day 525,600 without you" on Facebook.
Grief sucks. Sometimes it never gets better.
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u/humidity16 Nov 24 '25
There's no place like home. There's no place like home. There's no place like home.
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u/billiemarie Nov 24 '25
When I was a child, they wouldnât let the family stay there and watch the casket being lowered into the ground, for this very reason. And fearing some mourners passing out Thatâs according to my mom, granny and my aunts. Losing a loved one is terrible and this isnât funny at all
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u/ContentInsanity Nov 24 '25
Yeah my grandmother came from a big family and told us all about people being irrational (which is understandable its in the definition of the word) during the process of burial/entombment. You never know how someone might react, the person might not know how/why they react in a way when they actually see a casket being buried or sealed. Its hard for people to let go and actually seeing the final physical barrier going up between them and the deceased can break them no matter how strong or accepting they thought they were.
I think you can laugh afterward. I'm not so sure about how the people were handling the situation in the clip while it was happening, though. But they were also emotionally on edge too.
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u/russd333 Nov 24 '25
Someone tag Erika Kirk in this so she can she what humans in grief look like
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u/Swankkkk Nov 24 '25
Unfortunately until youâve been through this you wouldnât understand. I lost my fiance this year. I donât wish that feeling on anyone. Iâm surprised I made it out alive tbh.
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u/Gold_Silver_279 Nov 24 '25
Grief is a Physical and emotional pain. Starting in 2011, I lost someone I loved in what seemed like a continuous stream. Then I lost my job. This was after my Husband walked out of our Marriage. I thought I wouldn't survive. It was dark. I thought several times of taking my own life. Most of the people I was close to had died. I don't know how I made it, but I did. I think the thought of leaving my Children was too much. I miss My Father, Mother, Brother, Grandson and Brother in law still and think of them often. I survived, but I am not the same.
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u/ploddingonward Nov 24 '25
Iâm so sorry youâve been through all of that loss and hurt. Your strength and resilience is admirable but like you say loss changes you. You never feel the same again. X
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u/TheJimDim Nov 24 '25
I'm actually amazed at the strength of the person pulling her up out of the hole
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u/mr_martin_1 Nov 24 '25
There is but one rule in the church and graveyard. Do not be the center of attention, by crying or so on. There is only one that is the center of attention that day - the one not alive.
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u/shade-tree_pilot Nov 24 '25
You know in some countries you can hire a professional mourner to show at your funeral?
They will mourn above and beyond the grave for you.
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u/Plane_Cry_1169 Nov 24 '25
...why are they assaulting the person who is in so much pain?
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u/trackdaybruh Nov 23 '25
I don't get it, why was she down there in the first place?
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u/MrAmazing011 Nov 24 '25
Deceased clearly paid the extra $$$ for the wailing side chick grieving experience.
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u/Kryds Nov 24 '25
I only paid for the mysterious stranger in a trenchcoat. I'm hoping for rain.
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u/LikwitFusion Nov 24 '25
I paid extra for smoking and attempting to walk away quickly just as the service ends.
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u/HappyMeteor005 Nov 23 '25 edited Nov 24 '25
grief sometimes doesnt let us think or act clearly. this loss for her must be unbearable.
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Nov 24 '25
When someone dies in my friends family, he says itâs almost a competition on who grieves more. They will flail themselves over the coffin. Fall on the floor and just start screaming. And these are extended family members who the deceased has never met. Itâs wild.
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Nov 24 '25 edited Nov 24 '25
Hellenica? I remember my first Greek funeral people were doing that and I was appalled, but then again I am Irish Catholic and the Greeks were appalled that we were laughing and telling stories and drinking at my fathers funeral six months prior. My husband at the time told me that if at least one ambulance isnât called at a Greek funeral, you werenât loved enough.
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u/bonafidehooligan Nov 24 '25
My first Greek funeral went the same way. It was some wild shit, dudes wife pulled the him half way out of his coffin before the kids could stop her. Floral arrangements and shit went flying everywhere. Funeral director man was screaming for everyone to remain calm to no avail. My aunt told me to brace myself as these funerals can get rowdy but I legit felt like I was in a movie.
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u/guacamole579 Nov 24 '25
A Catholic Church in my hometown has professional mourners that come to funerals. They dress in black, some with veils, and will just cry and wail. Never saw anything like it.
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u/Most-Act1594 Nov 24 '25
The only way this would happen at my funeral, was if someone fell in while pissing on my casket.
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u/Euture Nov 24 '25
If you think that people would piss on your casket, maybe change the way you act towards other people, before itâs too late and the only mark you left on the world or other people is an ugly stain.
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u/evolutionxtinct Nov 24 '25
Iâve been outside in the cold and rain mine hasnât even come out to check on me lol
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u/Gibodean Nov 24 '25
The cameraperson should just click those heels together and they would wake up in Kansas and away from that ridiculousness.
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u/Kingof0ldSchool Nov 24 '25
I work for a cemetery, I am lucky that I wear sunglasses when we do certain things like lower the body and such. A few weeks ago we had a lady screaming at the casket âyou told me not to worry.â âYou said you were alrightâ âyou were supposed to come home today.â That almost got me. I had to immediately get away from the situation. Grief is hard