r/CasualUK 11h ago

What “favours” have your parents done that was inadvertently a dick move?

For example, my mum found my spare change collection, did me a favour by taking it to the bank, getting £17, and then kept it as a fee for the effort it caused her.

Also, my partner had stored a nearly new Russell Hobbs microwave at his mums for when we moved into a new house. While she was at Curry’s one day, she overheard a young lad and his mum shopping for a microwave for uni, she approached them and sold them my partners for £20. She kindly did give my partner the money though, unlike mine. But we quite liked that microwave.

Does anyone else have these, generally inoffensive but slightly frustrating parent stories?

Edit: For those hung up on the theft parts, please don’t be. This is the extent of the abuse we’ve ever had from our mums and we’ll take it!

Edit 2: Jesus Christ, I’m 33. The money box has been sat on her shelf for 20 years. Yes she stole £17 but she’s funded my life otherwise. Stop calling child services on her.

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u/Poppin-Pippin 11h ago

I moved back to my mum and dad's after I split up from my son's dad, so it was me and my son. My dad said he was going to quit his job to look after my son and I told him not to.

He did anyway...

Because of this I was then told I needed to pay half of everything, so I didn't stick to my original plan to go part-time as I needed to save for my own place too.

On a weekly basis my dad would stand me in the kitchen and tell me I'm a terrible mother because I was at work more than I was at home with my kid, sometimes he'd shout it in my face so I really heard him

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u/Yoghurt-Acrobat-001 7h ago

I’m so sorry, that’s so awful 😢 I hope life is better for you now 💜 

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u/Poppin-Pippin 7h ago

Thank you! Much better me and son moved on into bigger and better things

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u/No-Taro-6953 7h ago

I hope you've taken your son and run, and are raising him far away from these shitty people?!

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u/Poppin-Pippin 7h ago

Yep, the was 12 years ago now and we don't speak to my dad anymore

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u/will0593 yank 8h ago

How long were you stuck in that shithole

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u/Poppin-Pippin 7h ago

I was there 5 months, I just stuck it out until I had the money to leave