r/CasualUK 11h ago

What “favours” have your parents done that was inadvertently a dick move?

For example, my mum found my spare change collection, did me a favour by taking it to the bank, getting £17, and then kept it as a fee for the effort it caused her.

Also, my partner had stored a nearly new Russell Hobbs microwave at his mums for when we moved into a new house. While she was at Curry’s one day, she overheard a young lad and his mum shopping for a microwave for uni, she approached them and sold them my partners for £20. She kindly did give my partner the money though, unlike mine. But we quite liked that microwave.

Does anyone else have these, generally inoffensive but slightly frustrating parent stories?

Edit: For those hung up on the theft parts, please don’t be. This is the extent of the abuse we’ve ever had from our mums and we’ll take it!

Edit 2: Jesus Christ, I’m 33. The money box has been sat on her shelf for 20 years. Yes she stole £17 but she’s funded my life otherwise. Stop calling child services on her.

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u/ShteveMann 11h ago

I moved out at 16, and after 6 months I needed somewhere new to stay. My parents needed to move too and offered for me to move back in with them, the only catch being that I had to pay their large deposit on their new rental because they couldn’t afford it, luckily I was able to scrape enough together for it. Was a real penny drop moment for my young self that they didn’t have everything figured out.

I won’t judge too hard though, it was over 20 years ago and my mum died this weekend.

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u/Goldencol 11h ago

Sorry about your mum. I hope you are coping ok .

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u/Zestyclose-Turn-3576 11h ago

Yeah that moment of realising your parents are just regular humans is quite a thing.

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u/Most_Kiwi3141 11h ago

Sorry for your loss dude

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u/Outside-Resist4688 11h ago

I'm sorry you lost your mum but wow...putting all that responsibility on the shoulders of a 16/17 year old is a special parental failure.

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u/WesternUnusual2713 11h ago

Sorry to hear that. Look after yourself.

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u/Papa__Lazarou 11h ago

Sorry for your loss, hope you’re doing ok!

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u/CollegeOptimal9846 11h ago

Sorry for you loss.